You have a date coming up, and you’re feeling anxious, unsure of how to act, what to do, or what to say? While being authentic is valued, it’s also essential to be aware of various dating norms and etiquettes. Here’s an updated list of dating rules for all the modern women navigating the dating scene.
1. Dress To Impress.
This is a timeless piece of advice that has been around since the inception of dating. Opt for clean, well-pressed clothes, neatly styled hair, and a touch of makeup along with a subtle spritz of a pleasant fragrance. Remember, less is more; there’s no need to overdo it.
2. Punctuality.
Punctuality is essential. Respect others’ time and avoid taking it for granted. If you’re running late due to an emergency, apologize promptly and ensure that you make up for the lost time.
3. Affordable Order.
When ordering food and drinks, opt for something reasonably priced. While you may have financial means, it’s important to consider the other person’s circumstances. Particularly on a first date, show consideration and refrain from overwhelming them with an extravagant list of preferences.
4. Good Listener.
It’s crucial to actively listen to the other person during conversations. Avoid zoning out and try to engage by asking questions, even if you find the topic uninteresting. This demonstrates your level of patience and consideration.
5. No Ex Talk.
This is a major faux pas. Avoid discussing topics like children, marriage, or past romantic relationships on a first date, unless your date initiates the conversation. Even if they do, keep the discussion brief and avoid delving into specific details.
6. Paying The Bill.
Don’t anticipate that he will cover the bill entirely. It’s important to split the bill equally. Offer to pay your share and insist on dividing the cost. The notion that men should always foot the bill is outdated.
In today’s world, where women are independent and advocating for feminism, equality should be upheld, including in financial matters like this, shouldn’t it?